Also known as Narcissistic Christianity Christians always say things such as “you have to see me how God sees me.” “Can’t nobody but God judge”. “Can’t hold the past against me. If God doesn’t judge me, you can’t judge me.” Please take your selective perspective elsewhere. Do you see everyone else the way God sees…

I’m going to share the most important nugget of wisdom I’ve received in my adult life thus far. Honor yourself. This concept of honor yourself derived from something that I’ve been raised to understand, making sure we can sleep at night, having a clear conscience, and doing the right thing. When we think about doing…

So you finally gather the strength to end the relationship. Love with a narcissist is not a normal love, it’s an addiction. They have the ability to make you feel as though you are their entire world, sweep you off of your feet, and they seem at times so gentle, sweet, and tender. They also…

I remember my coworker foreshadowing my breakup 4 months before it happened. He asked me about my relationship and gave me a look. I reluctantly asked him what that look meant. He said, “You’re not going to marry this guy.” Deep down, I felt the same way, but I was shocked! Didn’t I just paint…

It’s a sad, cold day when a relationship experiences a trauma. Not all relationships have to experience lots of pain and heartache, but unfortunately, some do. The real truth is not all traumas break the relationship. Many people stay after being cheated on, being lied to, after periods of neglect because they feel the relationship…

For the most part, we are all raised to stand up for ourselves. With the best intentions, our parents raised us to fight back if someone hits us, to never let someone size you down, to stand for what you believe in so you won’t be swayed by the ways of the world. However, standing…

Life is a balance of learning and unlearning. We will have moments where we are right and moments we are wrong. We’re all just doing our best to survive. Now that I’ve gotten all the basic cliches out of the way, most people are good people, so it can be really hard to see when…

Dear Heavenly Father, God, I’m petty. You’re the Judge and the only one who can seek justice. I know this, but for once, I wish I could seek justice. Most people in my life who’ve hurt me, I can let it go. I can forgive and forget, but some people, it just doesn’t seem fair.…

We’ve all been there. After a fight or another lie, trying to figure it out. It feels like choosing you versus choosing the relationship. You love him, you’ve invested in him, you can’t imagine being with anyone else but him. But this relationship, it’s tearing you up inside. While you’re still in the relationship, you’re…

I tried it! I tried being healthy. I tried cutting out meat and dairy as a response to the toxic food industry, but I’ll say it, vegan food is a hoax, and most of it, is gross. It’s more expensive than normal food and costs more for cheap chemicals in a package with a vegan…