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I Couldn’t Even Enjoy a Pedicure
Read more: I Couldn’t Even Enjoy a PedicureI was never one of those girls who liked getting her nails done. It had nothing to do with money or even trying to be different, I didn’t like sitting in one place for more than an hour. The frustration of it was that it never seemed to finish fast enough. The chairs were never…
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Life is What You Make It
Read more: Life is What You Make ItIt’s the beginning of the year, and if we’re anything alike, we feel the excitement of the possibility of new. I think about all the places I want to go and the person I want to show up as. There’s something incredibly empowering about getting older. You have all the same feelings as when young,…
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Is My Life A Little Too Peaceful?
Read more: Is My Life A Little Too Peaceful?This is exactly what I planned for. I worked on my mental health, my inner peace, I crafted a life that would allow me to have peace and flexibility. I really just have to worry about myself. I can buy myself what I want. I can travel if I wanted to, and yet, sometimes I…
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Should I Apologize to the Narcissist?
Read more: Should I Apologize to the Narcissist?Let me be the example of what happens when you break no contact. I do not recommend it. I’ve done it twice now, responding to the hoovers. The first time, I was unaffected, the second time, I was triggered. The narcissist reached out to me in July of last year and it was like waking…
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Finally Free
Read more: Finally FreeDo you ever have plans but feel God is calling you towards different, or the opposite of what you want to do? That was me all 2022. I started the year with a list of plans. I was going to be the most productive I’d ever been, the most relaxed I’d ever been because I…
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I Am Not Good At Choosing Friends
Read more: I Am Not Good At Choosing FriendsIt was two years ago when I was just starting therapy and I sat on the green couch. I was sharing how I had poor quality friendships. Fresh out of a breakup, I was questioning my entire life. My ex was my magnum opus, but my choice of bad people started way before the relationship.…
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Why Am I So Unlikable?
Read more: Why Am I So Unlikable?Yesterday I had a tough moment. After a heated argument with a friend, my mood had been affected all day. I don’t like conflict, it can be traumatic. This conversation was so bad, I asked God, “Why am I so unlikable?” My life hasn’t been the easiest when it comes to relationships. This is due…